A Three Dog Life by Abigail Thomas
Women and their dogs... what could be better? Abigail Thomas loves her three dogs. They provide simple, ever-present, non-judgmental companionship, comfort, and joy. I began reading this book simply because of the cover and title, not knowing what her three dogs replace. Thomas' husband has an accident, leaving him with permanent brain damage, no short-term memory, and the inability to take care of himself.
The subject matter is intense and deeply sad, and yet, the writing is so beautiful and poignant that Thomas' pain is bearable. There are even funny moments, unbelievably profound conversations, and out-of-the-blue psychic revelations. It's possible that when one part of the brain is hurt, another part becomes more refined and developed.
I read this book quickly, all the while grateful for my life and my intact love. It makes you count your blessings, but it also invites you in to the author's world in the way only good memoirs can. I was so interested in this couple's life; out of such an irreparable tragedy, they build (or she has built) another life -- good and introspective and satisfying, and still very full of love.
Highly recommended.
---Sarah N.